Don’t be so afraid of letting go, that you can’t move forward
One of the things I’ve seen a lot of people struggle with is letting go.
Letting go of fear, letting go of experiences and letting go of the thing you’ve always done in order to do the thing you want to do now.
Does this sound like something you’ve experienced?
My own personal experience has been exactly like this.
I spent YEARS at university getting qualifications in various subjects. I racked up a collection of degrees and when I decided that I wanted to stay home and be a mom (who blogs), my education was the thing I couldn’t let go of.
I had spent YEARS of my life gaining these degrees. I’d spent SO much money that it didn’t make logical sense to me to let go of “the original plan” – instead, I tried to figure out a way to incorporate what I used to love, with what I love now.
You know what I was left with?
Guilt. A whole lot of guilt.
You see, I was clinging so desperately to the life that I used to know – to what I knew I was good at, that I refused to see any real possibilities for my future!
“The truth is, unless you let go, unless you forgive yourself, unless you forgive the situation, unless you realise that the situation is over, you cannot move forward.” ― Steve Maraboli
Well, it may have taken a while but I’m now living that life and living it guilt free.
I still struggle with some parts, like the fact that I used to make a hell of a lot more money than I do now but you know what, success is about more than just money and once you change what you value and accept your life, you can start living intentionally and authentically in a way that serves your purpose NOW instead of that which you used to value in the past.
It’s not always the easiest thing to do but we can make that change.
It’s about a mindset change.
It’s about looking deeply into yourself and determining what it is that you value!
Once you know what you value, you can align yourself to those values.
Anything that is no longer in line with those values no longer matters.
If it’s education that you’re afraid of wasting then consider that all you learnt during those years helped shape you to the person you are today.
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Nothing is wasted.
It’s okay to change direction at any point in your life.
It’s okay to go a different way.
It’s okay to value new things and to let go of the old.
It’s okay to change your mind about what you want out of life and it’s definitely okay to pursue your new life plan.
Letting go is part of moving forward!
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